It has sure been a long night..yep since I wrote i went out and cut the grass not to forget i have a big yard and the mower kept stalling....I went to the store twice and drove the mower back to my x husband who so nicely took all four kids...yippy I get another break...I had to say that.... Lately the kids have spent more time arguing than anything, and refusing to do chores until I threaten to beat them ( which they know I won't do) but that's how they know I mean buisness ... especially when full names are used...lol..... I remember those days when mom yelled jessica lynn tolson...I knew I better shut my trap and do as I was told or else get my ass tanned.....I sit and laugh about it now cause I'm older and can't get my ass wipped any more.....thats the great thing about being an adult.. but of course now a days the goverment tells most parents how to raise their kids...Don't wip them or u might bruise their little self esteams, yah buddy.... but when little joey ends up going to school with a gun and blows the student body to shreds the world says where were the parents.....they were probably sitting with their thumbs up there asses foome psychologist who told them hitting was wrong and all the other stupid things they say now..... if u dis obey the cops do u think they will take u're shit hell no they mase u, beat u and lock u're ass up..thats what our children are facing.....why because as parents we let the children services rule our lives... everything is a form of child abuse these days. now by all means I'm not saying beat the hell out of u're kids I am just saying if they need a busted ass than do it.don't wait....I would have rather of had my ass busted and learned earley than gotten away with murder and ended up in jail...thank goodness some one cared enough to stop me then.... personally I wish things were back the way they were in the 40-50 when parents had control.....thats when wemon stayed home raised their children, and men took care of their familys..less divorce, less abuse, less poverty.... less teen pregnacys....parents had control... ok I'm rambeling but, at least I got that outta my system now I must turn and enter the real world again and deal with what society dishes out.... u'll have a good day and think about it really hard....how can we as parents change the way the goverment works... jesilyn
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